Let me begin by talking about this girl — Irma. We are in the path. We are evacuating to Tennessee, renting a house in the mountains. We were in Matthew’s path last year and were evacuated for about a full week. Matthew was a category 2. Irma is projected to be a 3. We saw damage with Matthew, and we expect damage with Irma, too. Last year, I wasn’t as concerned … our home wasn’t near water or trees, and it was a townhouse. This time around, it’s different. We bought a home this April — a single family home with lots of trees and marsh across the street. I’m trying not to freak out.
Irma is not one of the “girls” I am referring to in the post title. But since many of my readers know my general location, I thought I’d go ahead and let y’all know that we are planning to evacuate and where. If you’re reading this and thinking, “Tennessee! That seems awfully far,” Tennessee was as close as we could get. If you consider that pretty much the entire state of Florida must evacuate, plus coastal Georgia, and coastal South Carolina, it seems easier to comprehend
Anyway, to explain the “girls” that are coming back …
I am getting my DIEP Flap surgery on November 28th!
That’s right! I’m getting the breast reconstruction that I have really always wanted to get! Initially, we went with the simpler implant reconstruction because the recovery is easier, but I was very unhappy with the results. Once the left implant had been removed, I decided to pursue the DIEP flap procedure.
We all know that health insurance can be a blessing and a curse, and this case was no different. I qualified for a Medicaid program which meant low copays and very little out-of-pocket. It also meant that surgeons who perform this procedure don’t work with Medicaid (surgery cost far outweighs Medicaid’s payout). In the meantime, my husband received a significant raise which bumped us out of the income qualifications for Medicaid. Long story short, I’m now on a BCBS plan that will cover the surgery (but means more out-of-pocket cost for us).
With the new insurance in place, I immediately called the surgical practice and got in on Tuesday. Fortunately, it looks like I am an excellent candidate! The earliest availability is the date of my surgery. I am over the moon.
Some of you may be wondering what the DIEP Flap procedure is. I’ll explain as much as I understand. Don’t ask me what DIEP stands for, though, because I can’t remember. Basically, they take the fat and tissue from my tummy and use it to form new breast mounds. It is at least a two-part surgery. The first one is the major one. The second (and any others) are to fine-tune and smooth out my breasts and stomach.
Some things you might be thinking:
- Hey, I’ve got some fat I could donate! Thank you, but that’s not the way it works. Plus, I have plenty of my own.
- Does this mean you get a tummy tuck? Yeah, pretty much!
- How long will you be in the hospital? Four nights
- Why is this surgery better? Um, see points one and two. Plus they will look more natural and be closer to my original size. I may even regain some feeling that I lost with the initial reconstruction.
- What is recovery like? I’ll be up walking the day after surgery. I will probably be a little stooped over at first. The most difficult thing will probably be “T-Rex” arms. I will not be allowed to reach for anything or lift my arms higher than 45 degrees for a while. I will have drains, but only about a week up top and three weeks in my tummy. I can drive after all the drains are out.
Feel free to ask me any other questions about it! Also if you have had similar surgeries, please give me any tips and suggestions you might have.
In the coming months, I will be trying to strengthen my core, lose some weight, and get into an exercise routine. These things will help with my recovery and my post-surgical appearance. With the “forced vacation” evacuation, I hope to work on a healthier routine.
I am happy to report that 40 is treating me well so far. I was able to add some medications to my antidepressant regimen, and the difference is fairly dramatic. I have more energy and less anxiety. Everyday activities and chores no longer feel like mountainous treks; rather I find myself regularly checking off my to-dos with a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. It is a huge relief to me to be feeling more like myself.
Work is fun and exciting. My self-esteem is still suffering, but with the knowledge of my surgery coming up, I am feeling a little less self-conscious. And also more motivated to get some exercise in and to eat better.
Thanks so much for sticking with me and continuing to read. I’m sure I’ll have more to write about soon!